Thanks to representation in media from Rihanna’s S&M to the 50 Shades of Gray franchise, BDSM is experiencing a huge rise in popularity and quickly becoming the centerpiece of our sexual imagination.
For the uninitiated, BDSM is an umbrella term for sexual play involving any of the following: Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, and Sadism/Masochism. Though power play and pain can be key elements, all BDSM is rooted in what is pleasurable for both partners and cannot work without strong trust and express consent.
Whether you’re dipping your toes into BDSM for the first time or looking for something new to add to your steamy night, here are some ideas — from our customers’ real-life experiences as well as our own suggestions — of how to incorporate Lorals into your kinky play.
1. It’s A Sweet Sensation
Sensation play uses the body’s senses as a way to arouse a partner, whether it’s hot wax dripping down your stomach or erotic sounds heightened by a blindfold. Latex is an awesome addition to your sensation play toolkit because it intensifies touch, making your partner’s caresses feel incredible. Take it from Scarlet, a latex lover who told Vice that “sex in latex feels euphoric” and makes her temperature rise as things metaphorically heat up in the bedroom.
Because Lorals are made out of an ultra-thin latex (10x thinner than regular panties!), they’re perfect for sensation play. Take it from our customers, like this reviewer who says their Lorals looked like body paint...
2. Don’t Hesitate, Dominate
Lorals let you feel every little thing, making them perfect for letting your bossy side out and dominating your partner. Plus their black latex look is perfectly on point for a classical dom/dominatrix feel. Try telling your partner exactly where to touch you or lick you. Or, try out some dominating oral poses, like having them crawl to you or sitting on their face. Certain positions like face-sitting or rimming (aka a rim job) can be made a lot more comfortable with Lorals.
3. Show Your Submissive Side
If you’re feeling submissive, Lorals offers plenty of opportunities to turn up the kink. Try out a classic Dom/sub order exercise by having your partner tell you when and how to put on the Lorals. They can order you to pull the bikinis up high for some cameltoe, or the shorties up for some bootie action. Or they can tell you to pull them down low for a little sneak peek. Or, if you want to explore a little bit of pain, have your partner snap at the Lorals for a sensation similar to spanking. And, don’t forget that Lorals have bounceback, meaning your partner can take charge of your pleasure by finger f*cking you in both back and front, as rapidly as you’d like.
4. Rip It, Rip It Good
Have you ever heard of a ripped clothes fetish? It’s when a person gets sexually aroused by ripping their partner’s clothes or having their own clothes ripped to expose their bodies. It’s a super hot move that fits perfectly into the power play dynamics of BDSM. Take a page out of these podcast guests’ book:
5. Calling All Latex Fetishists
Also known as “rubberists,” a ton of people satisfy their kinky side by wearing latex accessories or having sex with others who do. As latex lovers know, you can get really sweaty inside the clothing, and that’s part of the fun! But if you’ve never tried it before, the heat can be intense. For those of you who already love that sweet sweet sweat, try Lorals as your latex panties...and then receive oral sex through them! The latex can also make you feel incredibly sexy and powerful, which is why it’s one of the Kardashians’ fave materials. If you’ve already started a rubber wardrobe for kink play, you can pair Lorals perfectly with your other latex faves. Check out our article on Lorals-inspired latex costumes!
And if you really want to channel Kim K, wear them inside-out for an *extra* shiny look. Take it from influencer Adahlia Cole, San Francisco’s “Corporeal Curator”:
I’ve always hated dental dams because of how awkward they are to hold in place and how I’m always inhaling the latex. I constantly joke about building a better DD so delighted @MyLorals beat me to the punch. I stan this product. #DentalDAMNNN 😍 pic.twitter.com/bpPfurjsEy
— ADAHLIA COLE ᶜᴴᴵ ¹¹/²²⁻²⁴ • ᴺʸᶜ ¹²/⁹⁻¹³ (@AdahliaCole) March 7, 2019
Do you have other ideas for incorporating Lorals into your kinky play? Contact us or share on social and tag @mylorals!
Written by the Lorals Team. The Lorals Team is here to offer inclusive, honest, and accurate pleasure education for all. Each article is reviewed by our experts and educators to ensure you get the facts and answers you need.
Reviewed and Edited by Melanie Cristol J.D. the founder and CEO of Lorals. She studied Sociology at Columbia College at Columbia University, and she received her Juris Doctorate from Columbia Law School. Prior to creating and patenting Lorals, Melanie was a healthcare and consumer products attorney, and she was part of the legal team that secured gay marriage rights for the western United States. Melanie also fought for LGBTQ rights in California and Ohio as a field organizer with the National LGBTQ Task Force.
